Month: June 2015

Fathers Day 2015

Happy Fathers Day Baba! We survived another year! And while we’re not able to spend this day together, you’re in our hearts and we’re sending you our love. Please know that we appreciate you and we thank you for all that you’ve done for us from afar. We know it’s been tough. You’ll be coming back for good in less than 2 weeks (can you believe it?) and a new chapter awaits us! Get ready….cuz we’re excited! Love and prayers, Mummy and the O-meister.

What i’ve learned from a year of a long distance marriage

  I thought I’d start from where I left off from my last blog post. I will be a little candid, and I thank my husband ahead of time for allowing me to write about our lives or about him. After all I did start this blog with the intention of doing so: read here So what happened? The Rut happened. We all get in a rut some times. We run into challenging times. And as much as I’d like to give myself credit for surviving it, I won’t deny how hard it was and that is was easily one of the toughest years of my life..and how alot of it was self-inflicted. When you’re in a rut, you don’t really think about it, you kind of just go through it. I believe my rut started in December of last year (2014), but its origins might have been sooner. My husband and I had been living apart for about 6 months (he in New York, our son and I here in the Bay Area), with my visits occurring roughly once …